Skip to main content

Fatty Fatty Queen Rabia

 H

Here's hoping everyone had a Fatty Fatty Thanksgiving and an even Fatter Black Friday. After gorging myself on turkey, ham, and every side item known to humans, I spent black Friday (and the rest of the weekend) in a home-cocoon, watching basketball and football, reading, and decorating for Christmas. 

But you didn't come here to hear about me. You came here for vague details about books I haven't read yet. And so here we go. 

I wanted to do a True Crime theme this week, but I've already read Adnan's Story by Rabia Chaudry, so I felt it only fair to start with another book she's written, because All Hail Rabia, our queen. 

(If you aren't already obsessed with Adnan Syed's case, then I'm not sure we can be friends. If you didn't obsessively follow the Baltimore Sun's Lee Sanderlin's live tweets during the hearing in which Adnan was finally released, then I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU.) 

(I understand that I actually don't know most of you.)

So, read Adnan's Story and then listen to the Undisclosed podcast, and THEN listen to Season 1 of Bob Ruff's Truth and Justice pod (also about Adnan's case) and finally, watch the HBO documentary, and lastly -  get caught up on the social media groups and decide if you agree with me that Mr. S. should be arrested before the end of the year. #JusticeForHae (If you know, you know.)

Once you've done all that, we can move on to Queen Rabia's second book.

Book I Haven't Read Yet: Fatty Fatty Boom Boom: A Memoir of Food, Fat and Family by Rabia Chaudry 

That's coffee NOT chai *it's fine

Why I Haven't Read It: I pre-ordered this book, and I did a happy dance when it arrived on my front porch. I still haven't received the Chai Tea I was promised when pre-ordering, but maybe I missed the deadline. It's fine. It's not like I'm devastated. One morning, I was in the dining room pounding away at the laptop keys and heard Rabia's voice sing out from the tv in the living room, that beautiful sound, chatting away with some lady on the Today Show about how "Fatty Fatty Boom Boom" was a nickname her family gave her. (Which I already knew from social media, because duh, I'm obsessed.)

I almost abandoned that day's blog post and ran for the bookshelf, but I restrained myself. I've been savoring the idea of reading this book, the way I might savor a rich dessert.  

Who am I kidding. I don't savor food. I eat it all realrealfast, like someone might come and take it away. 

Should You Read It? Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. I'm going to read it in December, around the holidays. I want it to be my end of the year book, because I'm lame and assign importance to such things. 

Read it because: 

1) Chelsea Clinton recommends it on the FREAKING COVER. 

And, really - All you need to hear, in my opinion, is the last line of the blurb:

"For anyone who has ever been weighed down by their weight - whatever it is - Chaudry shows us how freeing it is to finally make peace with the body we have."

God save the queen. 

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Closing Arguments, Trial 3. The Defense: Closing the Case of Adnan Syed v Alice LaCour and Brett Talley

  Would Hae Have Liked Pineapple on Pizza? If it Pleases the Court... Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury, I want to start by thanking you for your time. It is no small task to put your lives on hold and focus in on the details and particulars and specifics of this case, and it may be a struggle to focus when you have to think about what you're missing at home. Your civil duty - and your willingness to fulfill it - does NOT go unnoticed. I mentioned "time." It's a relative, term, right? I had to wait in line at the post office for 15 minutes. I waited for the checkout gal at Wal-Mart for 20, because they didn't have enough lanes open. I don't know about you, but I try to be patient. Sometimes I fail to wait gracefully, but I really do try.  So. Look at Adnan. For over TWENTY-THREE YEARS he has been waiting... patiently. 23 years ago, I was about the same age as Adnan. I graduated high school in the spring of 1999, just like he did - or would have - had he not bee

20 Points in a Basic Story in the Botched Case Against Adnan Syed: I Must Be Insane as that's 5x More than any Other Basic Story Presentation I've Ever Seen

  Basic Story With 20 Points:  Could Adnan be Innocent? "It's not a cop-out; it's case law." ~Bob Ruff, host, Truth and Justice Pod   1 Adnan was the main suspect - Hae's family passed that along to Officer Adcock on the afternoon she disappeared. Originally, they suspected she might be with Don, even though she had to work at 6pm and had never once NOT brought her cousin home. Does anyone know how old the second cousin is? Two cousins lived with Hae. And Officer Adcock's Supplemental Report dated 1/13/99 states that Mr. Lee advises that she "did not pick up his two cousins from school.") Did they go to the same school, these cousins? Another question that could be explored is why Hae's uncle is the only immediately family member who doesn't live with Hae.  Another pain point for me - I'm confused as to why the cousins did not live with their dad, Hae's uncle... but look. Every family has different dynamics. I mean, I gues

Not The Nisha Call: Other Things to Consider in the Case of Adnan Syed

"If there is anything about my case, man - I want to know... I want to test it... There's nothing about my case that that I'm afraid of." - Adnan Syed Serial, Episode 12: What We Knew Instead of focusing on a flower and Jay's Changing Stories, Consider This: A) The policemen handling the Missing Persons Investigation did sloppy and lazy work. They back dated reports and failed to interview multiple people  thoroughly enough. B) The police did not interview the family robustly enough to understand what else might have been going on in Hae's life. They, to my knowledge, did not find a translator and instead relied on the guidance of her younger brother. C) A computer, a floppy disk containing electronic diary entries were noted and later went "missing"  D) Hae's email and AOL Instant Messenger (AIM) accounts were never researched thoroughly, and her online activity is relatively unknown, outside of her newly updated "away message" which s